not so happy 4th

I am sorry, this is not going to be a pretty post. Stop if you don't wanna get depressed. Today is the first holiday after my hospital days and we are so close to 35 weeks. Which also means I can slowly resume my normal activities. In honor of all these excitement, Paris took me to dim sum. We were trying to be smart and picked a place that my parents wouldn't go. It was almost our turn and whit out of luck, there came my parents. My mom gave me this eyes, "omg, you are huge!" The first thing came out from her mouth was NOT how am I doing, or if baby is okay. Instead, she said, "congrats on the baby boy!" Then I was like okay, some stupid people told you two. Fair enough. And after all the hospital stay you still don't know how to really get your act together? At least to really show your concern? Heck, I was in the hospital for 6 weeks! Is gender role really that important? Also, if this is a girl, are you not gonna congratulate me? One word this is bogus! And I actually swallowed this and willing to have a decent lunch with them. But things got worst! My mom then said if there's anything you need help just let me know. Then I thought, okay you know its a boy, how come I haven't heard anything about you two getting for the baby? Not tbhat I wanted anything. But as my parents, shouldn't they care? Then she asked, any plans for tonight? I said I have to clean. She was silent. Then I once again thought you are asking if I need any help? So your offer didn't mean anything? Then don't bother to ask me! Especially she knows I am not supposed to move around! At the end she was like do you want me leave? I stomped off and left with Paris! She still didn't get it. I do not want to associate with them. I gave you a chance, and the conversation got no where. Really, what makes her think I will forgive her after she told me she only cares about my brother? And till today she still only cares if I have a boy? She acted so stupid to chase after us. Paris and I worked so hard to keep Oren in. She is not gonna break us!